Read. Write. Mom!
Menu
  • Home
  • About
  • Press
  • Disclosure
  • Contact
Menu

Help for Trying to Conceive with The Stork OTC

Posted on November 20, 2016November 19, 2016 by Mandy

This is a sponsored conversation from Mums the Word Network and The Stork OTC. All opinions are my own.

Infertility is a topic that is very near to my heart. The ability to be able to become pregnant when you want to is something I used to take for granted. I always just assumed that my future husband and I would just decide we wanted a baby and that would be that. I couldn’t have been any more naïve or wrong.

As a newlywed, I pretty much had my life all planned. My husband and I wanted children and we planned to start our family as soon as I finished college and landed a job. A couple of years later, with those accomplishments behind me, we started trying to have a baby. To make a long story short, months passed by. When we hit the almost two-year mark, we saw a fertility specialist who prescribed medications for me and we even attempted an intrauterine insemination (IUI). That procedure worked, but then I had a very early miscarriage. Feeling defeated, I just decided I couldn’t carry on anymore with expensive medications, procedures, and having my emotions yanked all over the place. We decided to take a long break and regroup when had saved more money and I felt emotionally and physically ready to try again.

Amazingly, almost a year after we decided to stop all fertility treatments, I became pregnant and gave birth to our son. He’s 11 years old now, and I simply can’t imagine our life without him. We were absolutely elated with his birth and couldn’t wait a couple of years later to try and add on to our family. Our son turned two and we decided to try again. Naturally, after being able to have my son, I just assumed that all our issues had resolved themselves and it would be easier this time. I was wrong again. This time around, I had already made peace with the fact that I was fine if our son was an only child. We were so thankful to have him and I never pursued any other fertility treatments. He completed our family and we have enjoyed watching him grow.

stork otc

Even though our family seems to be complete for now, I still regularly keep up with my cycles and I like to stay in the know with advancements toward helping women achieve pregnancy. Have you heard about The Stork OTC? It’s a device that helps assist women in their chances of getting pregnant without the use of shots, prescriptions, scans, and procedures. It’s completely private, just as trying to conceive is a private matter, and designed to be used at home.

the stork otc

With male infertility on the rise, The Stork OTC can be of help with many common male fertility diagnoses.

This is what The Stork OTC looks like straight out of the box.

the stork otc

The Stork OTC can be purchased at Walgreens and CVS and can be found in the family planning section next to ovulation test kits.

pregnancy tests

I only wish that The Stork OTC had been an option for me during that trying time of trying to start our family. It’s certainly very economical compared to the average cost of an IUI and much more private.

 

 

Please join me and a group of panelists for an upcoming Twitter party on November 29 at 8pm EST and join in using the hashtag #becomingadad. There will be some awesome prizes given away, including a $50 Visa Gift Card, ovulation test kits, and a Stork OTC. Hope to see you there!

The Only 3 Parenting Rules I Follow

Posted on November 10, 2016November 14, 2016 by Mandy

When I was pregnant with my son, I couldn’t read enough parenting books.  I wanted to be the very best parent I could.  I wanted to be the best and give him the best and it seemed like there was a book for everything.  Pregnancy?  No problem.  Colic and reflux?  This one little book was quite popular at the time.  I’m sad to say it didn’t work for me, but no matter.  Every time a parenting issue came up, I just posted to a forum for advice or purchased another book.  It finally hit me by the time my son was in preschool that no one book, magazine article, or parenting advice forum could solve all of my parenting issues.  So, I stopped seeking these things out and went totally on instinct.  Can I let you in on a little secret, Mamas?  We all have this instinct.  If something doesn’t feel right, especially when it comes to your own child, it’s probably not.  It took me a while to realize this, but once I did, I felt very empowered.

Now with parenting blogs so popular and plentiful, it’s easy to search up a parenting issue you have, but you really do have to be careful about the advice being doled out.  I personally hesitate to even write many parenting advice posts on here, because Lord knows this IS my first time at the rodeo with having a child, and everyone’s situation is so unique.  However, I decided to share these three parenting rules I always follow because I really don’t think you can go wrong with what I’m about to tell you.  It’s not rocket science,  it’s not filled with the latest parenting “buzz words”, and it’s so basic that I think that’s why it works for me.  We are so bombarded on a daily basis with so much “noise” and social media and everyone telling us how to parent that it’s time to get back to the basics.  Here are the only three rules I parent by:

parenting rules

 

Talk To Your Kids

From the moment they are placed in your arms, talk to your kids and don’t ever stop.  Even when they’re totally annoyed, keep talking and telling them random things.  Not only does this build their vocabulary, but you’re also making some wonderful memories.  I talk to my son about how my day was.  If a certain song comes on the radio that brings back a memory from my childhood or teenage years, I tell him what it makes me think of and what I was like back then.  We talk about current events (my son loves keeping up with the news), I tell him what he will be having for lunch at school that day, and I always send him off with a kiss and a reminder to have a wonderful day.  It doesn’t cost a single thing to do any of this, but it keeps us learning about each other.  My parents talked to me while I was growing up, and even though I rolled my eyes every time my mom came into my room singing, “Oh, What a Beautiful Morning!” in her best opera voice each morning, I secretly giggled.  It’s our “thing” we shared.  My dad wasn’t as silly, but I still listened.  I know what song was popular when he was serving in the Army in Germany (House of the Rising Sun) and that his dog Red waited for him everyday after school on the corner when he was walking home.  Random?  Absolutely!  However, now that my daddy is no longer here on earth, these little random facts he told me about himself are precious memories.  Talk to your kids.  I promise they are listening!

Listen To Your Kids

Talking is great, but listening is just as important.  This shouldn’t just stop at asking them how their day was and them saying “fine”.  Does your kid want to show you the newest house they built while playing Minecraft and explain in very particular detail about how they chose to craft their house?  Listen.  Do they want you to watch the same funny video over and over?  Do it.  Do they just want to have a good cry because life is so hard when you’re a fifth grader?  Grab the Kleenex and just listen.  Many of you know I’m an elementary school librarian, so I come in contact with a whole lot of kids each day.  Some of them just can’t wait to tell me something….anything.  They want to show me the scrape they got when they fell off their bike, so of course I listen and offer them sympathy and a hug.  Some want to show me their new shoes.  I admire them with much excitement!  With a few of them in particular, I just have to wonder if anyone at home is really listening to them.  I can’t even wrap my head around not acknowledging your own child and listening to them when they want to talk.

Pray for Them

I pray for my child daily.  I pray for his safety, his happiness, and his health.  I pray for him when he has a test, I pray that he will make wise decisions and be the kind of friend people can count on.  I pray that he would be blessed with friendships that are positive and healthy.  I pray that he will now bow to peer pressure and be too caught up in the things of this world.   I pray for his school, his teachers (ha!) and that he has a close relationship with the Lord.  My prayers aren’t elaborate nor do they take up tons of time each day, but I just say a prayer of thanks for him and whatever else I feel led to pray about when it comes to my son.  Maybe you don’t believe in prayer, but it’s what gets me through and helps me more than anything along my parenting journey.

There it is…the three rules I parent by.  Am I the perfect parent?  No.  Do I have it all together?  Not even.  I have yet to experience the joys of parenting a teen, but I hope the foundation I’m laying with these three basic rules will help make that transition a little easier.  Do you have your own set of parenting rules?

printable thanksgiving coloring book

Free Printable Thanksgiving Coloring Pages for Kids

Posted on November 7, 2016December 7, 2024 by Mandy

Bring on the Thanksgiving turkey!  My library classes are so much fun now that we are headed into the Thanksgiving holidays.  These free printable Thanksgiving coloring pages for kids make the perfect activity after reading a fun Thanksgiving book and my students just can’t get enough of them!  My preschool and kindergartners are just learning about Thanksgiving for the first time and it’s been so much fun talking about the story of the first Thanksgiving, traditional Thanksgiving foods, and gathering with family and friends on this special day.

Thanksgiving always holds such wonderful memories of being blessed to spend the day with both sides of our family, with a few close friends mixed in.  My aunt makes the best dressing and it’s the one food I always look forward to on Thanksgiving day.  It’s also a family tradition to watch the Thanksgiving parades on TV that morning when we wake up.  These coloring pages can become a part of your Thanksgiving traditions as well!  Pair these coloring pages with a selection of Thanksgiving books for kids and enjoy the fun together this holiday season!  They also make great boredom busters for the kids while waiting for dinner to start.   These Thanksgiving coloring pages are absolutely free to print!  Click here to download the Thanksgiving Coloring Book and print them all, or just the pages you want!  Happy Thanksgiving!

Thanksgiving Coloring Book

fall coloring book

Free Printable Fall Coloring Pages for Kids

Posted on October 11, 2016September 4, 2024 by Mandy

I love fall coloring pages!  As a librarian, they are a perfect filler for my preschool and lower grade classes to go along with a lesson we are doing in the library.  Seasonal coloring pages, like these free printable fall coloring pages, are so much fun to help teach kids about the holidays and different seasons and get them excited about it.  We are currently reading books about Fall in my school library, and the kids are very excited about Halloween, the upcoming Fall break, and the cooler weather.

When I think of Fall, I think of big pumpkins, scarecrows, and watching the leaves change colors.  Autumn brings out some beautiful colors in nature!  These Fall coloring pages are absolutely free to print, and the previews are below.  Click here to download the Fall coloring book and print them all or just the coloring pages you want!  Happy Fall, Y’all!

fall coloring pages

 

Get things started with this nice, plump Fall pumpkin coloring page!  Perfect for coloring and decorating a bulletin board or to use for another Fall craft!

pumpkin coloring page

 

These scarecrows aren’t scary at all!  As a matter of fact, they are adorable and there is a boy and a girl scarecrow coloring page to print!

girl scarecrow coloring page

 

boy scarecrow coloring page

 

This adorable little squirrel is cute for learning about animals any time of the year.

fall squirrel coloring page

Going on a Fall outdoor nature walk?  Be sure to look for acorns!

fall acorn coloring page

flower coloring page

 

 

Printable fall corn coloring page

fall corn coloring page

bird coloring page

 

 

 

 

Click here for more free printables!

reading fair project tips

20 Reading Fair Project Tips and Tricks From a Librarian

Posted on October 10, 2016January 23, 2024 by Mandy

Another school year has started and it’s already time for me to start thinking about putting together plans for our school reading fair.  I get so excited every year about seeing all of the insanely creative projects my students come up with.  However, I know it can be quite a bit of work for parents, especially if your child is younger or if you’re like me and just not artistically creative.  Maybe you and your child are great at the creative part of putting together a reading fair project board, but you struggle with deciding on a book or even the part of presenting that book to the judges.  This summer I sat down and put together 20 reading fair project tips and tricks from a librarian that I hope will help you and your child out in whatever area you struggle with when it comes to reading fairs.

reading fair project tips and tricks

1.  Don’t be afraid to do a project on a seasonal book (Christmas, Halloween, Thanksgiving, etc.).  Seasonal books can make decorating a project board so easy and fun.  You may have to plan ahead for any decorations you might want to use to decorate your project board to make sure they are available.  As I’m sharing this with you, Halloween is just around the corner.  The decorations are plentiful now, with Thanksgiving and Christmas items already arriving in stores as well.  Last year I had the pleasure of judging a reading fair at another school and the top prize went to a child who did a project on a Halloween-themed book.  It was an amazing project and I wish I had taken a picture of it.

2.  Less can be more!  If you aren’t very crafty, don’t panic!  This project was made entirely of construction paper and is still one of my very favorite projects I have ever seen.

very quiet cricket

3.  Don’t choose a book that you aren’t excited about.  It definitely shows when the judges come to ask questions about your project and you are less than enthusiastic about what book you have read.  Pick something you like a whole lot, or even love!  You’ll enjoy talking about it much more.

4. Double-check your work.  Make sure everything required is on the project board.  Nothing hurts my heart worse on reading fair day than to be so excited about an awesome project board that was beautifully presented but then have to deduct ten points for a missing story element.  Ouch.

5.  When the judges come around, don’t read the plot summary of your book directly from the project board.  It’s ok to refer back to it if you get a little nervous or stuck, but you should be able to tell about all of the major points of your story without having to read from a script.  It all goes back to picking that book you love!

6.  Parent, please do not do your child’s project.  By ALL means, help your child, especially if they are young, but also let them take some ownership of the project.  Let them draw, glue, or whatever else is age-appropriate.  I once judged a reading fair and complimented a child on the beautiful artwork on her board.  She proudly told me her mom paid someone to have it drawn for her!  YIKES!!  Kids will tell it all!  Ha-ha!

7.  DO NOT COPY PROJECTS YOU SEE ONLINE.  I share a lot of pictures of reading fair projects here.  I can recall of three instances seeing one particular project copied down to the very fine details at reading fairs I have judged in the past.  Beautiful projects, but not authentic in the least.  By all means, get a little inspiration for your project if you want to do the same book, but just know that some judges can spot copied projects a mile away.  Don’t risk getting disqualified!

8.  Speak up and speak clearly when talking to the reading fair judges!  As a judge, I get so excited when I come across a student who LOVES their book and is so excited to tell me all about it.  I’m pretty shy myself and speaking is not my area at all.  However, just remember the judges are interested in what you have to say.  They are not there to “grill” you on your book, but to basically get an idea of the book and how it inspired your project.  Did it inspire you to do anything else outside the project?  I got to talk to a student who did their project on The Watson’s Go to Birmingham.  He loved the book, but what stuck with me so much was how he told the judges that it had inspired him and his family to plan on taking a trip to Birmingham in the future so they could visit historic Civil Rights monuments and places of interest.  Wow!

9.  Don’t be afraid to choose a book that isn’t “popular”.  Some of the best projects I’ve seen were books I had never heard of.  The enthusiasm of the students presenting these books made ME want to read them and purchase copies for my own library.

10.  Make sure your project represents the right category for your book.  I’ve seen beautiful projects get points deducted because it was a non-fiction reading fair book project entered into a fiction category.  When in doubt, show your book to your teacher or librarian before you start.

11.  If allowed, use props.  Items that go along with your book really make a project stand out and are great conversation pieces.  Here is an example of props used well:

freckle juice

12.  Dress up!  If you are allowed to dress like a character from your book, go for it!  It adds a little “extra” and can be fun.

13.  Make sure your project is sturdy.  If items are falling off your reading fair board, points might be deducted.  Your project may advance to a regional or state competition, so make sure it can withstand being transported safely.

14.  Choose an age-appropriate book.  Make sure the subject matter isn’t too mature or too below your child’s reading level.  This can be tricky, especially if you have a child that reads many grade levels above their peers.  I once judged a reading fair where an elementary student did a project on a book that I thought might be more appropriate for a high school student.  Now, maybe I’m just old school and the most risqué thing I ever read was a Sweet Valley High book in junior high, but I just couldn’t help but think that this little girl was reading things she probably shouldn’t at that age.  Again, it’s a tricky balance.

15.  Take advantage of reading fair help hours and workshops.  At my previous school, we offered a help hour after school around 5:00 PM so students and their parents could come to school and get some help, use the die-cut machines, or get a little creative direction from the art teacher.  I made sure to have reading fair boards from previous years out for display so the kids and parents could get an idea of exactly what should be on their board.

16.  Colored project boards really make a project pop.  If you can’t find any colored project boards, you can paint your board any color you like.  Fabric paint and spray paint work well on the boards that are made from cardboard, not foam.

17.  Have a copy of the book in front of your project.  Judges love to actually see the book you chose and it helps them get a better idea of the book’s topic.

18.  Having trouble choosing a book?  Ask your school or community librarian for ideas.  They can point you in the right direction and help you choose the perfect book that you will actually enjoy reading.

19.  Supplies for your reading fair project board don’t have to be expensive!  I have seen students use sticks, cotton balls, and props they already have at home.  Check out this super cute winning project that used peas and sponges:

reading fair project ideas

20.  Follow all reading fair rules.  Make sure your project board meets the height requirements, that you have permission to use props and any other specific guidelines that have been set forth.

I hope these tips and tricks for reading fair projects will help you out along the way and give you some inspiration.  Ready to start your own reading fair project? Check out these posts for more great reading fair inspiration.  Be sure and follow me on Pinterest and never miss a reading fair update!

25 Fun and Easy Halloween Crafts for Kids

Posted on October 2, 2016November 5, 2024 by Mandy

October has finally arrived, and the cooler weather has come in with it.  I always look forward to this time of year because we can finally start decorating our home with fall and Halloween decor.  We spent this past Saturday doing just that, and while unpacking our Halloween decorations, I came across some sweet little fall and Halloween crafts my son had made when he was younger.  It made me long for the days when he was smaller and so excited about everything.  He’s still excited, but he’s almost past the stage of wanting to do holiday crafts, which makes my heart sad.  However, if you still have kids who love to craft or are looking for a fun little Halloween party activity, check out these 25 fun and easy Halloween crafts.

Halloween crafts for kids.

1. Duct Tape Mummies | Crafts ‘n Coffee
2. Tin Can Ghost Windchime | Creative Green Living
3. Easy Popsicle Stick Pumpkins | Quirky Inspired
4. Easy DIY Halloween Mason Jar Lanterns Project | Jenn’s Blah Blah Blog
5. Monster Pencils | sherisilver.com
6. Paper Plate Pumpkin Easy Party Banner | Club Chica Circle
7. Halloween Footprint Craft: A Ghostly Keepsake! | Where the Smiles Have Been
8. Spiderific Halloween Garland | Sustain My Craft Habit
9. Pumpkin Apple Stamps | Frugal mom Eh!
10. Pumpkin Pie Paper Plate Craft | Raising Whasians
11. Build a Skeleton Free Printable + Instructions | The Purple Pumpkin Blog
12. 2 Dollar Halloween Pumpkin Decorations | Experimental Homesteader
13. Craft Stick Spiderwebs | Crafts Unleashed
14. Vampire Bat Handprint Craft | No Time for Flashcards
15. Skeleton Mobile | Activity Village
16. Spider Web Halloween Craft | Buggy and Buddy
17. Pony Bead Pumpkins | Cutesy Crafts
18. Paint Drip Monster Pots | Crafty Morning
19. Halloween Black Cat | Glued to my Crafts
20. Halloween Rock Magnets | This Heart of Mine
21. Popsicle Stick Witch | This Girl’s Life Blog
22. Halloween Googly Eye Photo Frame | CraftBits
23. Spider Headband | Fantastic Fun and Learning
24. Giant Pom Pom Spiders | PartyDelights
25. 19 Upcycled Toilet Paper Roll Halloween Crafts | Upcycled Wonders

When You’re Too Old for Glitter Bracelets

Posted on September 26, 2016September 25, 2016 by Mandy

When I was a little girl, I adored all things cute. Glitter bracelets were totally my jam.  Hello Kitty.  Charm necklaces.  I was convinced that Lisa Frank was a pure genius and had to have everything Lisa Frank I could get my hands on, especially the stickers.  Oh yes, I was the queen of the sticker collection and still to this day mourn the fact that I probably threw away my  sticker book when I was a teenager,  convinced that I didn’t need that “baby stuff” anymore.

The other day I was at the dollar store looking for some small little trinkets to put in my treasure box for the kids in my library and stumbled across these:

glitter bracelets

Can we just take a small moment of silence for glitter bracelets and all the magical magic they are?

I couldn’t help it.  I bought several packs of them for the treasure box and might have even saved a pack for myself because I knew my girls would just love them!  And all of that glitter reminded me of the next best glittery thing I had growing up:

glitter-baton

The glitter baton!  Because why just twirl a regular baton when you could sparkle while doing it?  And yes, every time I see a glitter baton I do a double take at the dollar store.

I also stumbled across this awesome Hello Kitty Nail Polish while searching for a nail polish color on Amazon.  It even has glitter in it!  I can remember going into a mall a couple of hours from where I lived back in the 80’s that had a Hello Kitty store.  Nothing but Hello Kitty!!  Hello!??  I was in heaven!

Last but not least, I think everyone needs a donut pillow.  Because why not?  I never had one of these growing up, but it’s so darn cute!

donut pillow

I don’t have a little girl at home, but I’m thankful I can spread a little fun to my students every now and then and share my love for all things cute.  I may be in my forties, but my heart is still ten years old.

25 Ultimate Halloween Treats and Recipes- Fun Party Food

Posted on September 25, 2016November 6, 2016 by Mandy

One of the most fun parts about Halloween is the cute Halloween treats and recipes to really make those Halloween party foods scary good.  Halloween treats have certainly come a long, long way since I was a kid.  I looked forward to the candied apples, homemade popcorn balls that my uncle made every year, and a chocolate cupcake on top of all the candy my little Halloween bag could hold that night.  It was so much fun running all over the neighborhood with my friends in our costumes and being so excited about all of the candy we were scoring!  I’ve noticed that where I live, more people are opting out of trick-or-treating and just having Halloween parties to keep the kids contained to a safe place that night.  If you’re planning or attending a Halloween party this year and looking for something fun to take for a snack, these 25 Halloween treats and recipes will give you some great ideas for some fun party foods.

halloween recipes 3

1. Halloween Pretzels
2. Gummy Leeches and Worms
3. Creepy Prosciutto Face
4. Halloween Graveyard Cupcakes
5. Witch Finger Cookies
6. Witch Broom Cheese Snacks
7. Leftover Candy Stuffed Brownies
8. Chocolate Pumpkin Truffles
9. Roasted Pumpkin Soup with Red Peppers and Caramelized Onion
10. Maple Pumpkin Spiced Popcorn
11. Sea Salted Cookie Dough Bark
12. Pumpkin Soup
13. Monster Cheese Cups
14. Halloween Cookies and Cream Owl Cupcakes
15. Pumpkin Cake Pops
16. Wickedly Delicious Caramel Apples
17. Spooktacular Gummy Eyeballs
18. Honey Graham Sandwich Cookies
19. Brigadeiro Halloween Cupcakes
20. Brain Cupcakes
21. Edible Witch Hat Treat Box
22. Toil and Trouble Halloween Cupcakes
23. Halloween Candy Bar Cake
24. Graveyard Taco Dip
25. Pumpkin Mummy Cookies

*BONUS*

1. Halloween Candy Corn Pretzel Bark
2. Ghostbusters Candy Bar Tartlets
3. Spooky Pretzel Bones
4. Creepy Spider Truffled Deviled Eggs
5. Brain and Blood Spatter Cookies

  • Previous
  • 1
  • …
  • 46
  • 47
  • 48
  • 49
  • 50
  • 51
  • 52
  • …
  • 193
  • Next
Hey! I'm Mandy, a candle-obsessed wife and mom who lives in Mississippi. I'm so glad you stopped by! You can read more about me here.

Reading Challenge

2026 Reading Challenge

2026 Reading Challenge
Mandy has read 0 books toward her goal of 20 books.
hide
0 of 20 (0%)
view books
Mortgage Payoff
 
$141,000 $0
get a progress bar at dollartimes.com
Student Loan Payoff
 
$9,846 $0
get a progress bar at dollartimes.com

Blog Love

Cheryl’s Frugal Corner

Home Ec Major

Cash Only Living

Just Simply Linda

Living Better One Day At A Time

My Tireless Retirement

It’s Always Something

Diary of a Stay At Home Mom

My Little Corner of the World

Afternoon Coffee and Evening Tea

Live and Learn- Toss and Turn

Days of My Life-Window To My World

Rocking Retirement

Memphis Bridges

Exquisitely Unremarkable

Moments Frozen In Time

Northwoods Scrapbook

 

Archives

All links may be affiliate links and should be considered as such. This site is a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to Amazon.com.  As an Amazon Influencer, I earn from qualifying purchases. Please see my disclosure policy for more details.

©2026 Read. Write. Mom!