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Mississippi River Flood 2011

Posted on May 8, 2011May 9, 2011 by Mandy

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Naturally, when you live 20 miles east of the Mississippi River bank, your thoughts can become almost consumed with wondering if the levee protecting you from this mighty force of water is going to hold.  Are we really safe?  Are the river gauges really giving accurate readings of how high the water is?  When will the river crest?  The answers to these questions change daily.  I’ve made a plan of action should we have to leave and seek higher ground.  The logical voice inside my head tells me we will probably be ok.  We have a very strong levee system in place and authorities are assuring us that unless something drastic happens ( a breach at Arkansas City, major sand boils, complete levee failure, etc.), we should be perfectly fine.

My grandfather, who I never got to meet in this lifetime, was one of many men that helped build the current levee that is in place protecting our small region of the Delta.  This was right after the great flood of 1927.  He was just a teenager in school and worked in the long, hot sun that particular summer building what is currently in place protecting the river towns in our county and the surrounding area.   I’m sure as he toiled in the sweltering, merciless Delta sun he never imagined some 70-something years later his hand in the hard work would be so depended on by his living children, grandchildren, and even great-grandchildren facing flood proportions almost never seen since that time.

Friends and acquaintances have posted pictures of the flooding on Facebook.  Lots of lakefront properties inside the levee completely inundated with water and many of the small riverside cities facing major flooding.  Perhaps just as heartbreaking…the pictures of the wild animals, especially the deer and hogs, seeking refuge within city limits.  I’ve seen the river come up pretty high back in 1997, but never anything like this.  It’s amazing and very concerning all at once. But so far, though it’s never been tested this high, the levee holds.

The next few days will tell the tale for our county when the reported crest should happen.  I’m confident my town will be ok, but still heart-heavy for those already affected, and not just in Mississippi.  Every state along the river is dealing with flooding.  Old Man River isn’t playing favorites.  He isn’t showing a whole lot of mercy, either.

Dear Dave, We Sold The House

Posted on May 5, 2011May 22, 2011 by Mandy

I’ve been a long-time listener to Dave Ramsey ,probably the most trusted source of everything financial I have ever run across in my many quests for learning how to budget.  I think at some point in our adult lives we’ve all come to realize we probably don’t manage our finances as well as we should.  I can remember several times listening to the Dave Ramsey show in my car and actually getting mad because Dave was striking a nerve with me.  Even when I worked full time as a teacher and my husband and I were bringing in a very decent income, we still blew our money on crap.  Now that I work for far less money than I could be making, we’ve made some major changes in our lifestyle, and I’ll admit it was painful.  At first.

Last night it finally hit me that I felt good.  Really good, physically and mentally, than I have in years.  I didn’t go on a crash diet and lose 50 pounds.  All we did was sell our house.  As I noticed a spring in my step at work today, I realized that the stress of worrying over money had been the number one source of why life seemed like such a struggle most of the time.  It has robbed me of sleep, peace of mind, and many tears.

So, in honor of feeling like I’ve taken back some control over my life, I thought I’d pen a letter to Dave Ramsey, right here on my blog.  He won’t ever see it, but if it helps one other person stuck in a mortgage nightmare, then I’m glad I could be of help.

Dear Dave,

When I would hear you tell a caller in financial straits to “sell the house”, my eyes used to roll so far back in my head I thought they would get stuck.  People have to have a place to live….a home is your identity and, well….it’s home.

Then my husband and I realized what a financial drain it is to carry a high mortgage on a home, the upkeep involved in preserving said home, and that selling was our only hope of getting back any financial control over our lives.  I’ll admit my husband was fully on board with this way before I was.

It took 9 months, but our home sold.  The home my son hit so many growing milestones in.  The home where one of our beloved cats is buried in the backyard under a tree, the home where we made so many great memories.  I won’t lie and say there were no tears from me as we closed the door for the very last time.  It was tough, but we did what we had to do.

We decided to rent an apartment for the time being until we decide what to do next as far as living arrangements and a funny thing has happened.  Our apartment is not Park Avenue, but it’s safe and clean and, don’t tell anyone, but I’ve just about fallen in love with it.  It has everything we need with no yard to mow and we have more time on the weekends as a family because we’re not slaving away at yardwork.  My son keeps telling me over and over how much he likes our new apartment.  I also feel more free and alive than I have in years because the stress of home ownership has been lifted from my shoulders.

You were right, Dave.  When I thought of selling our home, I vowed to go kicking and screaming away from it.  I worried about what others would think about us, I dreaded change, and I just plain didn’t want to give it up for the unknown.  However, the unknown has been a wonderful change for us, the world didn’t end, and I have you to thank for giving me a good kick in the pants to realize that.

Sincerely,

Mommy Cracked

Wordless Wednesday

Posted on May 4, 2011 by Mandy

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