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Save Your Sanity On Summer Vacation

Posted on July 26, 2012January 10, 2016 by Mandy

Have you ever returned from a family holiday feeling more exhausted and frazzled than when you left? Did you stress out about how much the whole thing was costing, and feel completely overwhelmed by being confined to a tiny hotel room for 7 days with no privacy and nowhere to relax? I think most parents have felt this way on at least one holiday, and it unfortunately dissuades many from vacationing with the family again.

Thankfully, there are some ways to save your wallet and your sanity while on holiday – you just need to know how. Here are my top tips for having the best family holiday possible!

 

Stay in a Holiday Cottage

 

Porthole Cottage from Sykes Cottages

 

Spending a week with your whole family crammed into a small hotel room is enough to make even the most patient of parents crack. The best family friendly holiday accommodation option I’ve found is a self-catering holiday cottage. Here you’ll have the space for everyone to have their own room and privacy, which will only make for a happier holiday. The fully functioning kitchen also allows you to prepare your own meals, which saves both money and time. Going out for a few meals on holiday is great, but having to be all dressed and organized before even having a coffee is just inhumane! There are holiday homes located all over the world so no matter where you plan to vacation there is sure to be something for you. If you’re visiting the UK take a look at www.sykescottages.co.uk for cottages all over the UK and Ireland.

 

Plan in Advance

 

You don’t want to over plan your holiday – spontaneity is the spice of life and all that – but when travelling with kids having some things organized in advance in essential. Not only with this allow you to hit the ground running every morning, but it will often save you money. If you spend some time looking at local attractions online you can often find advanced ticket deals which will save some money and will allow you to jump the cue. Having a plan also gives the kids something to look forward to and allow the whole family to do some research beforehand. When visiting museums and art galleries this advanced research can really enhance the experience for everyone.

 

Manage Expectations

 

If this is the first time that you are going on holiday with children it is imperative that you recognize that family travel is going to be different from the vacations you’ve taken as a couple. There will be no long lunches and you are unlikely to be able to cram as much into a day. While in the past you might have visited a couple of museums, spent leisurely afternoons exploring local shops, and relaxed at a restaurant well into the night, while vacationing with the kids you might do little more than play on the beach for a full day – and that’s ok. If you try to take an adult vacation with the kids in tow it is a guarantee that no one will have a good time. Recognize this and plan accordingly!

A family holiday doesn’t have to be filled with tears and stress. A great family holiday is possible; you just need to know how to plan it. With the right accommodation, advanced planning, and realistic expectations, you can take a holiday that the whole family will remember for years, and for all the right reasons!

 

This is a sponsored post.

Walmart #TaxFreeMS Twitter Chat- Tax Free Shopping

Posted on July 25, 2012January 10, 2016 by Mandy

mississippi tax free

 

I am so excited to announce that I will be hosting a #TaxFreeMS Twitter chat along with Walmart this Thursday, July 26, from 7 to 8 p.m. Central. The Twitter chat will be a chance for moms and dads from Mississippi to share their game plans for the upcoming state sales tax holiday (July 27 and 28, 2012) and their top tips for back-to-school shopping.

To participate, follow @thereadwritemom (https://twitter.com/thereadwritemom) or @Walmart (https://twitter.com/walmart) on Twitter, and join the conversation at 7 p.m. Thursday with the hashtag #TaxFreeMS.

We will be giving away some Walmart gift cards during the chat to help you out with your back to school shopping!  I hope to see lots of you there! 

My Child Is A Reluctant Reader

Posted on July 25, 2012January 10, 2016 by Mandy

We couldn’t wait for the day when we would be able to hear E.B. read books to us.  As a mom, it was a parenting milestone I looked forward to.  As a librarian, I know how important establishing good reading habits early on can make all the difference in a child’s reading success.  When E.B. came home with his word lists this past year in Kindergarten, we diligently went over them each night, and many tears were shed on his part.  I knew it was all new and frustrating to him, so I empathized with him.  I cheered him on.  By the end of the year, he was reading, and reading well.  The child reads beautifully and speaks so fluidly and with such enunciation that it makes me so proud.

reluctant reader

This summer we have been working through a summer reading list.  The books on the list were only suggestions, so I purposely picked out books on his reading level and with subject matter that I knew he would be interested in.  And yet, the tears still flow and I am resigned to the fact.

I have a reluctant reader.

I deal with reluctant readers at work more often than not.  I can count on one hand the students in the entire school who are so enthusiastic about reading that they make me hold books for them in a series so they can immediately check it out when they finish the previous one.  Naturally, I had visions of my own son being one of these children. 

He’s not, and he is one of two children I have ever dealt with that fought reading and the frustration of it to the point of tears.  My heart hurts for any child that struggles with reading this much.  He puzzles me, though, because once he starts reading, he does a great job. 

Now that he is starting first grade, I know we have a long road ahead of us.  I’m brushing up on ways to help reluctant readers, not just for him, but for my own students.  I will be patient with them all and try to incorporate some out of the box ideas to spark their interests.  I will keep trying to instill in them all the confidence they need to believe they can conquer any reading obstacles and actually enjoy a book.

It’s more than just my day job now.

 

*My friend Beth at The Angel Forever is currently holding a giveaway of some great books to help reluctant readers.  If you have a child struggling with reading, stop by and check out her post. (Giveaway ends July 31)

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